Today we ask: Ever had a hard time letting go? Is the “wrong one” better than no one? You wanted love but settled for lust? You say you like no-makeup and “natural beauty” but you chase weaves with butt injections? You double-park good candidates in the friend zone? You want to settle down but you chase the loverboys with bedroom skills? Is it always “their” fault when things go awry? There ARE some good women out there. There ARE quality men out there. Say what you mean and mean what you say. If the cycle repeats, maybe its time for self-reflection. Perhaps YOU could be your problem. Here’s the good news: If it’s you, at least the power to change the situation is actually in your hands. Actually, even when it’s not you, the power to make different choices remains yours.